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Ramadi, the capital of the Anbar province, fell to ISIL in May in an embarrassing setback for Iraqi forces. Analysts say recapturing the provincial capital, which is just 100km west of Baghdad, could deprive ISIL of its biggest prize of 2015.
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MPUNGUZE MHEMKO
Katika hali ya namna hiyo, mtu mwingine akija na busara za kutaka kumgeuza haraka haraka hawezi kumuelewa. Muhimu hapo ni kuacha kumwadama, kujibizana naye, kumshawishi asikilize badala yake mpe nafasi ya kusema atakavyo, abwate ajuavyo huku wewe ukimuitikia na kumkubalia lawama zake. “Basi mpenzi mwenye makosa ni mimi.” Kauli za aina hii zitampunguza hasira kwani atajiona msindi.
MSOME SAIKOLOJIA YAKE
Zoezi hili linaweza kuchukua saa kadhaa na wakati mwingine hata siku mbili. Lengo ni nini? Ni kupata matokeo sahihi ya kuondoa chuki za mwenza wako na kumfundisha madhara ya kukasirika kwenye uhusiano wenu wa kimapenzi. “J, nakupenda sana, lakini juzi uliniumiza, uliniambia mimi malaya kwa kosa ambalo sikufanya?” Bila shaka muda huo atakusikiliza zaidi kuliko ungebishana naye alipokuwa na hasira.
MRUHUSU AKUJIBU
Pamoja na kumsoma kisaikojia na kumwambia kinagaubaga makosa yake, usimzuie kujitetea, mpe nafasi ya kuzungumzia kilichomkasirisha. “Unaona bado unanitukana, sasa naamini siku ile ulikuwa umedhamilia.” Usisiseme hivyo, mwache ajibu hoja hata kama atakuwa anakukandamiza na kuzidi kujijengea ushindi. Mvumilie aoshe ubongo wake.
EPUKA MARUMBANO
Watu wa namna hii unapowarejeshea mazungumzo wanaweza kujikuta wanahamaki tena.
“Kwa hiyo ulikuwa unasemaje…nilifanya ndiyo,… wewe unaamuaje?” Mkifika kwenye alama hiyo usikubali kurumabana naye mwache aseme halafu wewe ingia kwenye hatua ya tano.
MUOMBE MSAMAHA
Hata kama atakuwa yeye ndiye mwenye makosa na amekataa kukiri, usijali, chukua jukumu la kumuomba msamaha na kueleza tena nia yako ya kumazungumzo ilikuwa ni kuelewana si kugombana. Kumbuka hata kama amekiri kosa, bado unatakiwa kumuomba radhi kwa kurejea yaliyopita. “Mpenzi inawezekana nikawa nimekuudhi kwa niliyosema, nakuomba sana tusameheane.”
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Ramadi, the capital of the Anbar province, fell to ISIL in May in an embarrassing setback for Iraqi forces. Analysts say recapturing the provincial capital, which is just 100km west of Baghdad, could deprive ISIL of its biggest prize of 2015.
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